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– Bisi Adewale

Wisdom hath builded her house, she hath hewn out her seven pillars: She hath killed her beasts; she hath mingled her wine; she hath also furnished her table. She hath sent forth her maidens: she crieth upon the highest places of the city, Whoso is simple, let him turn in hither: as for him that wanteth understanding, she saith to him Proverbs 9:1-4 (KJV).

To build a great house you need a strong foundation and pillars; prayer and fasting will never sustain a skyscraper you build without strong pillars. Likewise, marriage needs to be built on very strong pillars to make it stand and weather the storm of life, which may come as wind, flood to test the strength of a home and its stability.

The following resources combine together to make strong pillars for marriage:

1) GODLINESS: Marriage is a godly product. So, it will take a godly attitude to sustain it. Godliness will make you to love God and his son/daughter in your life. Godliness involves living like God, living for God, living in God, living on God, living with God. It involves Christ likeness, obedient to the word of God and humility. Godliness connotes godly attitude like love, tolerance, forgiveness, acceptance, goodness, prayerfulness and friendliness which actually make marriage work.

2) PRAYER: Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened Matthew 7:7, 8 (KJV). Don‘t be careless with your marriage, pray about your spouse’s and your own emotion, actions, reactions, attitudes and characters. Pray against satanic manipulation of your marital choice. Pray against any evil plan against your marriage, spouse and children. Insure your marriage daily with prayers.
3) DIVINE DIRECTION: I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye. Be ye not as the horse, or as the mule, which have no understanding: whose mouth must be held in with bit and bridle, lest they come near unto thee Psalms 32:8, 9 (KJV). Marriage is like a road to an unknown city; you will need somebody that knows the way to lead you. Only God knows tomorrow, so allow him to lead you into it without regrets. Your eyes may see a beautiful face, but it takes God to show you a beautiful destiny. Don’t just marry anybody, pray and get direction from God.

4) ADEQUATE PREPARATION: The preparations of the heart in man and the answer of the tongue, is from the Lord Proverbs 16:1 (KJV). Marriage is a long time journey; it needs to be adequately prepared for. Don’t rush into it. Prepare physically, spiritually, intellectually, emotionally and vocationally. For more on this, get a copy of my book: Preparing for Marriage.

5) WISDOM: Through wisdom is an house builded; and by understanding it is established: And by knowledge shall the chambers be filled with all precious and pleasant riches. A wise man is strong; yea, a man of knowledge increaseth strength Proverbs 24:3-5 (KJV). Marriage doesn’t work by age, it works by wisdom. Many people are suffering in their marriage today because they lack the required wisdom for a successful family life. Get wisdom through marriage programmes, books, CD’s, DVD and Marriage School.

6) EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION: Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord Ephesians 5:19 (KJV). For marriage to last, effective communication must be in place. This involves truthfulness, sincerity, openness and clarity. Negative statements like: fool, idiot, stupid, mad should be avoided. Use: I am sorry. I love you, you are beautiful. All these positive words will keep your marriage on track.

7) SERVICE: Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others Philippians 2:4 (KJV). Successful marriage is a product of service from two angles. That is, the husband and wife. Those who go into marriage looking for somebody that will serve them will make a mess of their marriage in no time. Serve your partner; don’t wait to be served. Render a helping hand to your spouse at all times even if he is indifferent.

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Bisi Adewale is an International Conference Speaker on Marriage, Parenting and Family Life, He is the author of the bestselling books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife, Parenting Teenagers, Parenting boys and Girls and more than 70 other bestselling books on marriage and family life.

He is the president of Family Booster Ministries International and College of Marital Success (CMS), Host of Family Booster Moments on TV, watched in many countries across the globe.

Bisi Adewale, is an accountant by training, called and trained as a family minister to rebuild all dilapidated homes, He is the host of the popular Lagos Couples’ Conference and Breakthrough for Singles Summit. He blogs daily at www. totalfamilylife.com.

He is happily married to Yomi a Chartered Accountant, Counsellor and Teacher of the word, they are bless with Godly Children, they lives in Lagos, Nigeria.



It’s a movement, it happens monthly- THE BREAKTHROUGH FOR SINGLES & it’s no news that the May Edition was a huge success. As usual the hall of Eden Comfort was filled to capacity with singles and married who know the essence of blissful marriage.


May Edition was tagged “YOUR CAPACITY IS YOUR MARRIAGE” Pastor Bisi Adewale opened us up to what we have never heard anywhere before on how to build marital capacity. He took his anchor scripture from Luke2:52 and the way the Holy Spirit explained it through him blew the mind of everybody present. He spoke on the importance of commitment and advice that singles must never sign the dotted lines with anybody they are not ready to commit to.

Mrs Mercy Aina, a gospel singer from Abuja was in attendance and she ministered in song as she took everyone to His presence.


There were testifiers from the previous editions who returned glory to God for what He has done for them as they stirred people’s heart to always trust in God.

We had our latest couple in the house as well, in person of Mr & Mrs Olaewe.


Tolu and husband pix                                  


Now the next one is this month of June and this month’s edition comes up on the 28th June at Eden Comfort-17 Alade Avenue, opposite Airport Hotel  Ikeja by 2:30pm. It’s Tagged: COLOURS OF MARRIAGE. You can’t afford to miss it.








I have never heard about God’s mercy before but after hearing this teaching from Pastor Adewale, I experienced God’s mercy in a number of ways. In December 2014, I lost my job then partnered with God’s mercy in January. I got another job, got sacked in May for reasons I didn’t understand but I believed God for the best. The same month of May through the mercy of God I got another job with the salary that multiples what I was earning from my previous job.

Also enemies wanted to stop my brother from continuing his education by threatening him with death but God intervened.



I want to thank God for what He has done in my life. On the 13th of April, I was sacked from my working place due to an issue I thought was nothing. By mercy I got another job on Friday the 17th.

1st May God added another year to my years and on the May 26 my brother’s wife gave birth.



I want to thank God for His favour and mercy in all ways especially for the success of my wedding. Even when there was nothing, God showed up to the extent that after the event people started commenting on what only God can do. All I can say is ‘IT PAYS TO SERVE JESUS’



It has come and gone but the impact will never leave the lives of the couples that were present. We have been getting amazing positive feed-backs from the attendees. It’s no other programme than this year’s LAGOS COUPLES’ CONFERENCE, TAGGED- EXCELLENT MARRIAGE. It was a programme ‘UNUSUAL.” Probably you even saw the fliers and felt it’s the normal church sermon & you’ve had enough of it; can I humbly tell you that you were wrong. Couples learnt what no Pastor in any church will preach to them on the pulpit. Romance was re-ignited, couples were trained to be what, who and how God wants them to be and to also live how he wants them to live which will rub on the way they train their children and in turn we have a divorce-free society.
WOW!!! The Intimate Talking Time was another thing; it was very glaring with the looks on their faces that they hardly do that for long at home. They actually didn’t want it to end but there were other things lined up.
The high point was having Pastor Bisi Adewale talk to the couples on “THE WONDERS OF AN INTENTIONAL MARRIAGE” and the wonder is just doing one thing in many areas-‘TALKING’ in and on everything (Communication which is a dialogue and not a monologue). Talking intentionally not when there is a problem, talking to inform and not to deform and talking to yourselves not at yourselves. Let me give you a sneak peek on areas to talk;
Your relationship with God
Your Vision
Your Love Life
Your In-laws
Your Children
Your Sex life etc.
To get more on that, get a copy of our book titled Excellent Marriage Training Manual Series 1-5.
Lest I forget, our couple of the year Mr & Mrs Samuel Oyetola were in the house. They have been married for 50years and still waxing strong. They were prayed for and also presented with their anniversary gift.

You can catch a glimpse of the event in the attached pictures. IT WAS EXCELLENT MARRIAGE INDEED.












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Bisi Adewale

“Behold, thou art fair, my love; behold, thou art fair; thou hast doves’ eyes. Behold, thou art fair, my beloved, yea, pleasant: also our bed is green. The beams of our house are cedar, and our rafters of fir”. Song 1:15-17

We can use different colours to report different kind of marriages around us. Every marriage has colour that represents it. You need to learn about these colour they change the colour of your own marriage.

  1. Black Marriage. This is the marriage of unbelievers, people who do not know the Lord, whose marriage is not based on Biblical principles but on worldly philosophy and human understanding. This marriage is always full of strife, demonstration of flesh and negative habits and character. “The way of the wicked is as darkness: they know not at what they stumble”. Proverbs 4:19.
  1. Yellow Marriage. This is a marriage at “drifting level”. It was once full of love, intimacy, acceptance, romance and joy. Due to carelessness or busyness of the couples involved, they begin to neglect each other, taking each other for granted, remove courtesy, honour and respect, spends less and less time together. No more playing time, no time to do those “sweet things” they use to do when they were in courtship and honey moon, they allow other things to be their focus instead of each other. At this stage of marriage, women are known to put all their attention on their children to the detriment of their marriage, leaving their marriage to grow “yellowish” and dry. Men at drifting love or yellow marriage put all their attention on their jobs and friends; having no time for the marriage and family. “Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love. Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen, and repent, and do the first works; or else I will come unto thee quickly, and will remove thy candlestick out of his place, except thou repent”. Rev 2:4-5
  1. Orange Marriage. Marriage at this level has grown beyond “yellow level”, since nothing is done to arrest the situation. It grows deeper into “matrimonial dillusion”. At this stage, it is not just about “drifting” from each other, it is about “hurting” each other. The marriage now involve outburst of anger, hatred, bickering, fighting, peace today; fight tomorrow, hurting each other with words, etc.
  1. Red Marriage (Proverbs 19:13-14). This is a bleeding marriage; it has gone beyond drifting and hurting to bleeding. The truth is, when marriage is not attended to at yellow level, it will grow orange before going to red, if the signal is still ignored. A red marriage is a terrible marriage. A marriage devoid of love, joy, care, affection, attention, communication and passion. It is full of total war, violence, all-out-battle, malice, cutting remarks, abusive words and murderous thoughts. A red marriage is a marriage at its worst. Some couples at this stage, seek for help in the right places, some in the wrong places, compounding their problems, some will not look for help from anybody, they will just remain like that fighting battles all their live while some will opt out of the marriage, ending up as divorcees. Proverbs 21:19
  1. Pink Marriage. This is the kind of marriage where the woman is in charge; ruling and reigning over the husband. In this kind of marriage, competition, rivalry, power struggle and in-fighting is the order of the day; making life difficult for everybody. The order of God is for the husband to be the head of the home and the wife submit to him. 1 Cor. 11:3, 8-9. Marriage is always difficult when this divine order from God is not followed and respected.
  1. Ash Marriage. This is the kind of home where the man is the head and the headache of the family. He is very harsh, wicked and difficult. Nobody can advise him, nobody can talk to him or influence him, he is just difficult, dictatorial and hard. These kinds of men are known to beat their wives, are abusive and violent. This is not the will of God for the family, though God commanded wives to love their husbands. He never said the woman should be treated as a footmat, rather, to be loved, cherish, nourished, care for and honoured. “Live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest all the days of the life of thy vanity, which he hath given thee under the sun, all the days of thy vanity: for that is thy portion in this life, and in thy labour which thou takest under the sun.” Eccl 9:9
  1. Brown Marriage. A brown marriage is a marriage with a brown bed. A bed full of immoralities, infidelity and uncleanliness. God commanded us to keep sex only within the confines of marriage, not giving room for either pre-marital or extra-marital sex. “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge”. Hebrews 13:4. When marriage is brown, it will make the marriage to be a bleeding marriage, as the marriage loses its blood of trust, care, love, joy, peace, making things difficult at home.
  1. Blue Marriage. A blue marriage is a love-filled marriage, a marriage full of intimacy, bonding, care, attention, affection and passion. A blue kind of marriage is God’s idea of marriage, a place of peace and the presence of God. SOS 4:7-10
  1. White Marriage. A white marriage is a marriage of righteousness. A marriage whose foundation is on Christ. They are controlled by the Holy Spirit. Their home is based on biblical principles. In a white marriage, God is the final authority. Kindness is their attitude, holiness is the standard, love is their language, joy is their music. For your marriage to be sustained it must be white, it must be blue. Psalm 127:1
  1. Green Marriage. This is a growing marriage. A marriage that is growing daily towards God, towards each other, growing in love, intimacy, acceptance and wisdom. For your home to be all right and your marriage okay; it must be a growing marriage. As soon as your marriage stops growing; it will degenerate.

Every couple should know that there is something to learn about God, about each other, about marriage and family life, so don’t stop growing, keep on growing, keep at it, learn, improve, update yourself, don’t build an analog marriage in a digital world. Please note that to have a successful and blissful home; your marriage must be blue and white. For your marriage to remain blue and white, you must keep it green, your bed must also be green. SOS 1:15-17


Bisi Adewale is an international conference speaker on marriage and family life, the author of these best selling books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife, Hot and Sizzling Marriage, 20 Highways to a successful  Marriage, Before you say I Do, and more than 60 other best selling books on marriage, Parenting and family life.
He is the president of Family Booster Ministry and College of Marital Success (CMS) (Africa’s Premier Marriage Institute), Host of Family Booster Moments on TV, watched in many countries across the globe.
Bisi Adewale also hosts the popular Lagos Couples’ Conference and breakthrough for singles’ summit
Get a free book from him here, you can buy his books on amazon.com, konga.com or familybooster.com, join him on Facebook.com/totalfamilylife.


Understanding The Girl-Child

Pastor Bisi Adewale

You need to understand your girl-child to be able to raise her well; you have got to know the girl that lives in your house if you must raise her well to become a woman you dream of her to be. I want you to note these very simple things about your girl-child.

  • DIFFERENT FROM BOYS: Girls are different from boys; you can’t raise them the same way. A girl is more delicate and more vulnerable than boys. So you must make more efforts to protect your daughter from bullies, predators, and sexual molesters. So you need to do much more to protect your daughter than you would your sons.
  • VULNERABLE TO SEXUAL ABUSE: Your girl is very vulnerable to sexual abuse especially when she is young and naive. You need to give her adequate sex education to protect her.
  • NOT LESS INTELLIGENT THAN BOYS: Never think girls are less intelligent than boys; far for it. In fact, in many schools, girls perform better than boys academically.
  • OFTEN DOUBT THEIR BODIES: One major problem with an average girl is known as “body doubt”. An average lady hardly believes she is beautiful; in fact, most have some things they hate about their bodies. For some, it is their noses; some, their buttocks; others hate their set of teeth, faces, legs, hair etc. To some, they are too slim while others believe they are too fat. An average young lady sees her breasts as too small or too big. A sizable number of ladies have “body doubt” problems. You will do well to validate your own girl often, until she begins to belief in herself and appreciate the body given to her by God. Always tell your girl she is beautiful.
  • HAVE PROBLEMS WITH LOW SELF-ESTEEM: “Body doubt” is known to make many young girls to fall in to the pit of low self-esteem. And it leads to low self-evaluation, low self-respect, and self devaluation.
    You need to consciously help your daughter to deal with low self-esteem; let her know her worth to God and to you.
    Words easily affect them; let her know she is a woman of value a peculiar person; a royal priesthood and joy to mankind. Never use body defects to abuse her; encourage her in failure; never pretend that you have never failed in your life; and appreciate her when she does things right.
  • WANT TO BE ACCEPTED: Your daughter, like any other lady, wants to be accepted for who she is; she hates to be compared with anybody. Accept your daughter for who she is; she may not be as brilliant as some people but she is definitely brilliant than some people. She may not be as beautiful as some people but she is definitely more beautiful than some ladies. Accept your daughter and stop comparing her with other people……culled from PARENTING GIRLS


Bisi adewale is an international conference speaker on marriage and family life, the author of these best selling books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife, Hot and Sizzling Marriage, 20 Highways to a successful  Marriage, Before you say I Do, and more than 60 other best selling books on marriage and family life.
He is the president of Family Booster Ministry and College of Marital Success (CMS) (Africa’s Premier Marriage Institute), Host of Family Booster Moments on TV, watched in many countries across the globe.
Bisi Adewale also hosts the popular Lagos Couples’ Conference and breakthrough for singles’ summit
Get a free book from him here, you can buy his books on amazon.com or familybooster.com, join him on Facebook.com/totalfamilylife.



Bisi Adewale
If ye shall ask any thing in my name, I will do it. (‭John‬ ‭14‬:‭14‬ KJV)
There are many areas to touch regularly in the life of your Children in prayer. Don’t under estimate any area they are all important. “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened” (‭Matthew‬ ‭7‬:‭7-8‬ KJV)
Here,I will show you many of these areas so that you will be able to check the area you’ve not been touching,so that you may take them more seriously.
Some of these areas are:
1) Their Spiritual life
2) Their Purpose
3) Their decisions
4) Their Marriage
5) Their Conversion to Christ
6) Their character
7) Their Attitude to money
8) Their attitude to opposite Sex
9) Their attitude to work
10) Their attitude to life
11) Their attitude to People
12) Their attitude to marriage
13) Their Submission to the Holy Ghost
14) Their future
15) Their safety
16) Their Sexuality
17) Their mind set
18) Their Fruitfulness
19) Their glory
20) Their Health
21) Their Victory
22) Their Temperament
23) Their Choices
24) Their promotion
25) Their career
26) Their Choice of life partner
27) Their Wedding
28) Their friendship.
29) Their relationship
30) Their mind and Brain
31) Their names
32) Their leadership
33) Their Children
34) Their long life
35) Their prosperity
36) Their Focus
37) Their Joy
39) Their Vision
40) Their location
41) Their Peace of mind
42) Their service unto God
43) Their Success in life.
44) Their fear of the lord
45) Their Battles
46) Their enemies
47) Their maturity
48) Their spirit
49) Their fear
50) Their Meekness
51) Their self Control
52) Their Faith in God
53) Their Victory over Sin
54) Their hatred of Alcohol and drug
55) Their Perspective to life
56) Their Junctions in life
57) Their hatred of sexual immorality.
58) Their love for purity
59) Their Emotion
60) Their Passion
61)Their Boldness
62) Their in laws
63) Their love for prayer
64) Their love for the word of God
65) Their love for the house of God
66) Their generosity
67) Their wisdom
68) Their provision
69) Their integrity
70) Their Desires
71) Their Addictions
72) Their Going out and coming in.
73) Their eternity

There are many areas to touch,it is a long walk with God, you can not afford to fail,you can’t afford to be slack,you are the gate keeper of their destinies, you are on the watch tower,you must be alert,you must be sensitive,we are not fighting flesh or blood we have formidable enemies to contend with in the lives of these Children. Remember: A CHILD OF MANY PRAYERS CAN NOT GO ASTRAY. RISE UP TO PRAY

For more on these and to get more than 1000 Prayer points to cover all the areas mentioned above and pray for your Children,quickly get our prayer books for Parents titled: MY CHILDREN MUST PROSPER AND PARENTING BY FIRE.
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Nine Parenting Foundations

Pastor Bisi Adewale
If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do? (Psalms 11:3 KJV)
To be a successful parent their are many things that must be done, if we don’t do them well parenting Godly Children may be a very difficult task. All these things that we suppose to do as Parents are what I call parenting foundations. I will be mentioning nine of them in this piece. They are:
For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ. (1 Corinthians 3:11 KJV)
– Your spiritual life is the foundation of your parenting work
– If you are lukewarm you may raise a set of spiritually dead Children
– If you are a bench warmer in Church your Children may never go to Church tomorrow

Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. (Proverbs 31:28 KJV)
– Your marriage is the nest in which your Children will be hatch.
– You can’t be a good mother and father until you are a good Wife and husband
– when you keep your marriage, you are preserving the destiny of Children
– A bad marriage will make your children live like refuge in their own house.
– The best gift a mother can give to her Children is to submit, honor and respect their father.
– The best gift a Man can give to his Children is to love, care, provide and protect their mother.
– Do your Children a favor build a better marriage, never divorce or separate from your spouse.

My little children, of whom I travail in birth again until Christ be formed in you, (Galatians 4:19 KJV)
— You can’t pray too much for your Children you can only pray too little.
— Persistent prayer is key to the success of your Children
— A child bath in many prayers can never go dirty.
— A Child of many prayers can never go astray.
— One parenting duty that will never end is prayer, no matter the age of your Children.

Through wisdom is an house builded; and by understanding it is established: And by knowledge shall the chambers be filled with all precious and pleasant riches. (Proverbs 24:3-4 KJV)
— You cannot raise your children better than what you know.
— A quack Parent will do much harm than quack Doctors.
— You must learn about children, Parenting, raising Children by age, by sex, by seasons, the act of motherhood and fatherhood.
— Learn about Children according to their gender, boys and girls.
— Learn about your Children about their ages. Toddlers (age 0-3),preschoolers(age 4-5),Grade schoolers(6-8)Preteen(9-12)Teenagers(13-19)adult Children(20 and above)
— Get good books about parenting, boys, girls, Toddlers, preteen, Teenagers, adult Children etc.
— Attend parenting seminar, organize one in your church, office, NGO, School etc
— Your Children may not rise more than the level of your knowledge

And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul. (Genesis 2:7 KJV)
— Every Child comes in a dusty way, they need the breath of life to become a living soul.
— To breathe on them you must stay with them.
— God did not send angel to do it for him, hence, you can’t delegate the breath.
— You breath on Children by spending time with them and showing them what to do
— You breath on them by going out with them.
— You breath on them by teaching and training them.
— You breath on them by praying for them.
— You breath on them by leading them by example and be a model.

Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity! It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron’s beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments; As the dew of Hermon, and as the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the Lord commanded the blessing, even life for evermore. (Psalms 133:1-3 KJV)
— Destiny of a Child is in the Unity of the parents
— When you stand together, you can withstand anything.
— Nothing confuses a Child like parents who are playing different tunes from the same keyboard.
— When parents always disagree about their Children arguing in their presence they may end up decrying those children.

Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him. (Proverbs 22:15 KJV)
Training is to improve strength or self Control
Training involves discipline.
Discipline is:
— The act of punishing for wrong doing.
— A Child not Discipline is a Child born for destruction.
— Discipline is not just about beating
— There is a thin line between Punishing and Child abuse.
— Discipline your Child, but don’t abuse
— Aggressive beating is not discipline it is Child abuse.
— A child not discipline may end up a disgrace.

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. (Proverbs 22:6 KJV)
— Training of a Child is not a Biblical suggestion, but Scriptural injunction.
— If you don’t train them when they are young, they will trouble you when you are old.
— Training involves deliberately moulding their lives the way you want them to be.
— It involves shaping characters, habits, changing manners, developing self control.

And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. (Ephesians 6:4 KJV)
– Stop been harsh
– Stop been wicked
– Stop been difficult
– Stop Shouting

Loving a Child in your heart is not enough, you must show them you do.
– Create atmosphere of love at home.
– Show love verbally, tell them I love you
– Hug your Children often, they want it, they will love it.
– Spend time with them
– Tell them stories both real and imaginary, in the process you will be entertaining them and teaching them at the same time, all Children loves stories.
– Buy gift for them
– make them better not bitter
– make them happy not sad
– Befriend your children
– Attend PTA meetings, end of year parties etc All Fathers should be involve in this,stop delegating parenting.
– Show love in actions and reactions
– create atmosphere of love at home


Bisi adewale is an International Conference Speaker on Marriage, Parenting and Family Life.
He is the author of the bestselling books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife, Parenting Teenagers and more than 70 other bestselling books on marriage and family life. He is the president of Family Booster Ministries International. He blogs daily at: totalfamilylife.com. To reach him call: 08056457013.
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You must be wise, you must know how to handle your bedroom, it is over to you”

Thank God, these books are now readily available in Nigeria. These four books were written by Bisi and Yomi Adewale, world acclaimed marriage Experts and International family Consultants.

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How To Identify Tonic And Toxic Relationships Part 1

– Bisi Adewale

Your relationship can be a TONIC to your life and it can also be TOXIC, the result of both will affect your life now and in the future either positively or negatively.

While TONIC relationship will affect you positively and give you a STAR MARRIAGE, TOXIC relationship will affect you negatively and lead to a SCAR MARRIAGE.

In this part one I will be telling you how to identify a Tonic relationship, now let talk about what tonic relationship is and how it affects you.


– Tonic relationship will move you closer to God and things of God; you will not be disobeying God because you are in a relationship.

– Will give you peace of mind and joy

– Will give you hope for the future

– As a man, you will have a level of control over the lady while she will be able to Influence you.

– As a Lady you will be able to influence your beloved, and he will have a level of control over you.

– Your focus Is not sex but future life together.

– You will still love life despite your love life

– It will aid your career and make you better

– Your honor and respect is intact

– You are free to talk, give advice to your partner on things that involves both of you

– You are not competing with any other individual to get the attention or love of your partner

– Your relationship is not affecting your academic negatively, in fact it is adding to it.

– Love is genuine, focus is right, life is good.

– You create time to pray together for your present and future life.

– Your relationship has not broken your friendship with your friends.

– Your relationship is not affecting your relationship with your parents and siblings negatively.

– Your relationship is not affecting your Health negatively.

– You are planning your future together.

– You are not been used or abuse.

– It does not involve treat, intimidation and abuses.

– It is mutually beneficial to both of you

– Your beloved is faithful, purposeful and fears God.

– It does not involve you sending your nude pictures to your beloved

– Does not involve oath taking

– You don’t need to pretend, you can still be yourself.

– You are talking and planning the future together.

– Your opinions count

– The lady is not with you for money

– The guy is not with you for sex.

– There is high level transparency.


TONIC relationship is a very good relationship, God is happy with it, it will have future and generational impact, will give you rest if it lead to marriage, and give you peace of mind in the future, avoid TOXIC relationship.

In part two of this piece I will be telling you about TOXIC relationship, don’t miss it, like me on Facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale, twitter@bisiadewale, BB pin: 2AF5C883, so as not to miss it.

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Date: 26th October, 2014


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Time: 2:30pm

Call: 08056457013

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12 wrong things Girls check before marrying a Guy

– Bisi Adewale
Many Ladies are known to base their marital decisions on things that will not endure a life-time. These have led many of them into wrong marriages and life time bondage. We need to identify and deal with them:

1) HEIGHT: Every girl’s dream is to marry a tall, dark guy with a baritone voice, I wonder where they got the idea that tall guys are better in marriage. Hey Girls, tall guy can give you tall problems; it is not the height that matters but the depth of the guy in God and in character.

2) MUSCLE: Muscular and heavy looking guys are also lucky, they are seen to be good suitors, and girls do say “they look manly” “they look like real men”. Sorry Girls, muscles do not make a real man, character and ability to shoulder responsibility do. A guy with muscle without character will use his muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful face.

3) A WELL SET HOUSE: A guy with a well set house is the dream of any girl any day. Many girls will throw caution into the wind to grab a man who have a house with King size; beautiful Italian Settee, micro wave oven, well stock freezer, home theater, refrigerator, gas cooker, Plasma TV,6 by 6 bed, well stuff Kitchen, Dining table, washing machine, dish washers, split unit air conditioner etc is a dream catch for girls any day. Sorry girl, a well set house is good but it may be a well set trouble if the guy is not a man of character, manners or discretion, he will make the house look like a prison yard for you.

4) FAT BANK ACCOUNT: Girls are fond of trying to know how rich a guy is by checking the guy’s phones for bank alerts. They joyfully decide to marry a guy when they discover the guy is very rich with fat Bank balance. What a mistake? They don’t want to know where the money is coming from; they don’t even want to know what the guy does for a living. What concerns them is the money that is available to be spent. Many girls ended up finding themselves entangled for life in this kind of situation, don’t base your marriage on GREED, it won’t turn to GREEN.

: Some of our girls are in the habit of making marital decision base on the place a guy works. You dare not talk of marriage to them if you are a Teacher or civil servant. You dare not propose them if you are working with a small firm, or one man business. What an error? Girls note that, that a guy works in ACCESS BANK does not mean he will give you ACCESS to his heart or peace of mind. A guy that works in SHELL may put your life in a SHELL forever, you may not be the FIRST in the  life of  a guy that works in FIRST BANK, a guy that work in GUARANTEE TRUST BANK may not GUARANTEE your future. He may be working in NESTLE but not SETTLE you at home, So it is not about where he is working but about who is working in Him, God or devil.

6) ROMANCE: A young lady said, “The guy is romantic, hot and sexy, i will marry him” Stop girl!!!!, Romance is not enough for marriage. The truth is, most so called romantic guys don’t remain like that after wedding. Marry a guy base on qualities that will endure, romance don’t last forever, go and ask married women.

7) TYPE OF CAR: A whole lots of girls will be enticed by a guy driving a big and expensive car. Some will not even go out with a guy that does not have a car. If you want to mess yourself as a guy, ride on a bike to go and propose to a lady, you will hear the story of your life. Ladies, a guy that has a CAR may not CARE for you, life is not about CAR, it is about marrying somebody that will CARE for your future.

AND: Most girls will readily marry anybody with US or UK passports, Lots of girls have destroyed their lives in the process of looking for somebody with a foreign passport to marry.

9) HIS PERFORMANCE IN THE CHOIR: It is funny that some ladies are ready to get marry to some guys because they are very good in the choir, they can play Sax, keyboard, drums, trumpet and sing tenor and Bass very well, I wonder whether they want to start a choir band in their houses.

10) RICH PARENT: Children of Rich parents are easy target for many young girls not because they are in love with them, but they know they will have access to money and connection. Many of these guys come from rich are pompous, cocky, proud and will be terrible and irresponsible husbands and fathers tomorrow but girls will not care about that, Most of these girls do live to regret their wrong decision.
Don’t marry anybody just because the parents are rich, marry the person for who he is and the love you share together.

11) FELLOWSHIP LEADERSHIP: Many Christian ladies are ready to die to marry brothers that are in the executives of their Campus fellowship. They fight tooth and nail to get the attention of these brothers, some even go to the extent of offering their bodies. Many of these ladies do think that the best of all men are in the executives of the Campus fellowship, they’ve forgotten that A PRESIDENT OF THE FELLOWSHIP MAY NOT BE A RESIDENT OF HEAVEN.

12) BEDROOM EXPERTISE: One of the most stupid way to make a decision who to  marry as a lady is to base it on how good, sexy or terrific a Guy is, in the bedroom. If you base your marital decision on a man’s sexual prowess; you may end up with a play boy instead of a Husband. You may end up getting marry to a sex hunter, instead of a real lover, a universal sperm donor who will sleep with your sister, house maid, friends, girls in the neighborhood, his secretary  and anything in skirt that cross his paths. DON’T GO FOR SEX GO FOR SENSE.

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Date: 26th October,2014
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Time: 2:30pm
Call: 08056457013, BB:2AF5C883
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12 wrong things Guys check before marrying a girl

– By Bisi Adewale

Many things guys base marital decisions upon are very funny and a times; foolish things.These has led many guys into a life- time of regret .Let’s examine and burst them one by one:

1: Curve: they ask, is she figure 8?If you marry her for her figure 8, will she maintain that when she become pregnant? Never, it may even turn to figure 96
2: Size: they often ask; is she “Lepa” (slim).They are crazy about’ Lepa’. After giving birth to the first baby, what will happen to the size? It will be as if you took her to a vulcanizer to pump her up.
Stop fooling yourself, that ‘Lepa ‘girl will later look like her  ‘orobo’ (fat) mummy. If you don’t like the present look of her mum, you better don’t marry her.
3: Big Butt: Very wrong! How will you choose a girl because she has a big buttocks, this is even an heavy load to her, big but its just a big sewage disposal unit, a magnificent septic tank. Is that what you want to marry? Wise up guys.
4: Pointed breasts: Will her breast remain pointed after raising three children? Never! Don’t go for breast, go for the best.
5: Tooth gap: “Eji Jo rice”.Quite funny, you want to marry a lady without character just because she has a gap in her teeth, she may end up creating gap in your life and destiny.
6: she dress sexy: A great woman will dress to look beautiful not to look sexy. If you see a “gala” whose nylon has been removed, will you buy it? if she is exposing her breast, cleavage, pants, thigh etc for the world to see and you want to marry her, you will not marry a “PRIVATE LIMITED COMPANY” but a “PUBLIC LIABILITY COMPANY” Be wise guy.
7: Cat walking: you want to marry her because she is cat-walking, sorry you won’t. She that is in marriage will not cat-walk in Pregnancy, she will only tummy walk.
8: Rich parents: So, you are a gold digger! If you marry her because of her rich parents and her parents begin to feed you and your family in marriage, you are not a Man. Just stop wearing trousers, go and start wearing Skirt and blouse and don’t forget “Iro and buba”.
9: Brazilian Hair:Do  you want her because her hair is long or because she is wearing a Brazilian hair? That shows shallowness, wearing Brazilian hair does not equate beauty or brain. Any dunce can have long hair and do one million braid.
10: British and USA Passport: Many guys are looking for these; any lady that carries British or U.S Passport is a hot cake to Men who are generation of Esau, those who are ready to sell their future and destiny for a morsel of bread.
11: Beauty: A whole lots of beautiful ladies are without discretion. Don’t ever marry a lady just for her beauty, beauty will fade, character will last. If she dress well but do not act well, don’t marry her.If you do, she will make your life miserable.
12: Bed expertise: “She is very good in bed, very hot,very acrobatic” that was what a guy told his mentor who ask him why he wanted to marry a lady who kept on cheating on him ,embarrassing and abusing his mother. Funny as it is, many guys are making  life long decision based on this. I think getting married to a professional prostitute will be better if bedroom high and long jump and gymnastic is what you want to base your life upon.
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Date: 26th October,2014
Venue: Eden place, opposite Lagos airport hotel,17 Alade Avenue, Ikeja Lagos,Nigeria.
Time: 2:30pm
Call: 08056457013
Food will be served.


Bisi Adewale is an International Conference Speaker on Marriage, Parenting and Family Life, He is the author of the bestselling books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife, Parenting Teenagers, Parenting boys and Girls and more than 70 other bestselling books on marriage and family life.

He is the president of Family Booster Ministries International and College of Marital Success (CMS), Host of Family Booster Moments on TV, watched in many countries across the globe.

Bisi Adewale, is an accountant by training, called and trained as a family minister to rebuild all dilapidated homes, He is the host of the popular Lagos Couples’ Conference and Breakthrough for Singles Summit. He blogs daily at www. totalfamilylife.com.

He is happily married to Yomi a Chartered Accountant, Counsellor and Teacher of the word, they are bless with Godly Children, they lives in Lagos, Nigeria.


Simple Things To Teach Your Child (4-6)

Papa special There are many things to teach your pre-schooler. I will mention some of them here. Make sure you inculcate godly value into him so that when he grows old it will remain with him.

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it (Proverbs‬ 22‬:6‬ KJV).‬‬‬‬‬‬

1: The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom, tell him.
2: Also he needs to understand that it is better to be kind than to be right.
3: Sharing is good, never be stingy. Tell him to share material things wisely with others.
4: He must know that his talent with the right attitude could take him to the top.
5: Teach him how to pray.
6: Instruct him not to procrastinate; he must do what he supposes to do at the right time.
7: He must never be a bully.
8: Sex education which ensures his protection is proper. He needs to know that nobody touches his private parts. If anyone does, he must tell Mummy or Daddy immediately.
9: Inspire him with ‘I-can-do-it’ mentality. He must believe in himself.
10: Be in company of good friends only. It is better to be alone than be with the wrong people.
11: He must not be lazy.
12: He must respect his parents, teachers and elders.
13: Instruct him to put God first in everything.
14: He must note that education is very important.
15: He also needs to learn to wash his plates after eating.
16: He must also know that it is not proper to talk when eating.
19: He needs to know why he must wash his hands after using the toilet.
20: Yes ma’am, yes sir is the way to answer parents and teachers.
21: He must learn to forgive.
22: He must never make himself the enemy of his siblings. They are his brothers and sisters.

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Bisi adewale is an international conference speaker on marriage and family life, the author of these best selling books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife, Hot and Sizzling Marriage, 20 Highways to a successful  Marriage, Before you say I Do, and more than 60 other best selling books on marriage and family life.
He is the president of Family Booster Ministry and College of Marital Success (CMS) (Africa’s Premier Marriage Institute), Host of Family Booster Moments on TV, watched in many countries across the globe.
Bisi Adewale also hosts the popular Lagos Couples’ Conference and breakthrough for singles’ summit
Get a free book from him here, you can buy his books on amazon.com or familybooster.com, join him on Facebook.com/totalfamilylife.




Choose to love each other even in those moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is a commitment, not a feeling.

Always answer the phone when your husband/wife is calling and when possible, try to keep your phone off when you’re together with your spouse.

Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the “currency of relationships” so consistently invest time into your marriage.

Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage and remove yourself from people who may tempt you to compromise your character.

Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share moments of joy, and even in the hard times, find reasons to laugh.

In every argument, remember that there won’t be a “winner” and a “loser.” You are partners in everything so you’ll either win together or lose together. Work together to find a solution.

Remember that a strong marriage rarely has two strong people at the same time. It’s usually a husband and wife taking turns being strong for each other in the moments when the other feels weak.Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. It takes more than sex to build a strong marriage, but it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it!

Remember that marriage isn’t 50-50, divorce is 50-50. Marriage has to be 100-100. It’s not splitting everything in half, but both partners giving everything they’ve got!

Give your best to each other, not your leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else.

Learn from other people, but don’t feel the need to compare your life or your marriage to anyone else’s. God’s plan for your life is masterfully unique!

Don’t put your marriage on hold while you’re raising your kids or else you’ll end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.

Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.

Never lie to each other. Lies break trust and trust is the foundation of a strong marriage.

When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and humbly seek forgiveness. You should be quick to say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”

When your husband/wife breaks your trust, give them your forgiveness instantly which will promote healing and create the opportunity for trust to be rebuilt. You should be quick to say, “I love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.”

Be patient with each other. Your spouse is always more important that your schedule.

Model the kind of marriage that will make your sons want to grow up to be good husbands and your daughters want to grow up to be good wives.

Learn from other people, but don’t feel the need to compare your life or your marriage to anyone Else. God’s plan for your life is masterfully unique!

Never talk badly about your spouse to other people or vent about them online. Protect your spouse at all times and in all places.

Always wear your wedding ring. It will remind you that you’re always connected to your spouse and it will remind the rest of the world that you’re off limits!

Connect into a community of faith. A good church can make a world of difference in your marriage and family.

Pray together. Every marriage is stronger with God in the middle of it.

When you have to choose between saying nothing or saying something mean to your spouse, say nothing every time!

Never consider divorce as an option. Remember that a “perfect marriage” is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each .

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Dealing with Dread

Joyce Meyer

Joyce Meyer

It’s impossible to reach your God-given destiny if you allow your thoughts to be overcome by dread. Dread is a close relative of fear, and allowing it to remain in your mind, sets you up for misery and robs you of joy.

Once, I experienced a feeling of dread as we were planning our trip to speak in India. I was excited about the wonderful opportunity there, but all I could focus on was the long flight and poor conditions that exist in that country. I’m grateful that I knew how to dispel that dread by focusing on and dwelling on God’s Word. If I had allowed myself to dwell on the negative aspects of the trip, it would’ve taken away the joy and excitement God wanted me to experience.

Dread is a trap, and you must be determined not to fall into it. If not being sure of the future or facing new things causes you to feel dread or fear, turn to Psalm 27:1, praying and confessing out loud, ‘The Lord is my Light and my Salvation, whom shall I fear or dread?’

Prayer Starter: Lord, I declare today that You are my Light and my Salvation. Because of You, I don’t need to dread the future. I have victory in You.

Psalms 27:1

Psalms 27:1 KJV
1 The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

How To Become Valuable In Your Generation


Rev Olusola Areogun


– Luke 10:38-41; 1 Cor. 15:9-10

Success leaves clues as well as failure. If you see any successful person, look for clues in his or her life. There is no success that is a mystery except bad success because every genuine success leaves clues. So, we should look for clues in the lives of successful people and emulate them. We should also avoid all the clues that point to the result of failures.

Success is a result of consistently applying some basic principles while failure is the result of making the same mistake repeatedly. If you really want to succeed, then form the habit of doing things that failures don’t like to do.

Learning has not taken place until behaviour changes. Therefore, behaviour change is the evidence that learning has taken place because you can receive information without learning. An important learning for success in life is to distinguish between:

i.  Things that need to be done, and
ii.  Things that you want to do.

If you search yourself today in your career or in your work; either you are a student, a business man, a mother or what have you, you will realize that there are some things that need to be done and there are some things that we don’t usually like to do. Do the things that need to be done in your life and in your organization and you can never be pushed aside in your generation.

The man who consistently does whatever needs to be done in an excellent manner will always be in demand anywhere he goes. Be diligent to know the things that are the major matters wherever you are and labour to become excellent in those things and God will lift up your head.

Prayer: Lord, deliver me from laziness. Help me to be diligent in handling the core duties that are tied to my greatness and success in life and destiny in Jesus’ name, amen.

God Gives Grace to the Humble

Joyce Meyer

Joyce Meyer


First Peter 5:5 tells us that God “sets Himself against the proud, but gives grace (favor, blessing) to the humble.” And anyone who thinks they’re a self-made man or woman has a rude awakening coming because Jesus said, “…Apart from Me [cut off from vital union with Me] you can do nothing” (John 15:5 AMP).

When we live in pride, trying to succeed without God’s help, we’re left open to so many attacks of the enemy. But humility is a covering that draws the help of God into our lives to protect us. When we humble ourselves by saying, “God, I don’t know what to do, and I’m trusting You,” God will help us.

God won’t allow us to succeed at anything unless we’re leaning and relying on Him. But when we humble ourselves under the mighty hand of God, in due time, He will exalt us (see 1 Peter 5:6). “Due time” is God’s time, when God knows we’re ready, not when we think we’re ready. The sooner we understand and accept that, the sooner God can work out His plan in our lives.

Prayer Starter: God, I humble myself before You, knowing that You will exalt me in due time. I can’t succeed on my own. I need Your help.1 Peter 5:5


In His Pursuit

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Pastor W. F. Kumuyi


TEXT   JOHN 8:12-31

Key verse: “Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life” (John 8:12).

Light is required to find our way. When a lamp is used, its usefulness will depend largely on how close we follow the bearer of the lamp. To follow from afar is as good as walking in darkness. And walking in darkness will make one go astray, stumble, fall and be destroyed.

To the Pharisees, Jesus declared “…I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life”. This was enough message to bring conviction and guilt upon their hearts. They tried to cover-up their guilt by accusing Jesus of boasting. The Lord however went on to justify His claims as He made them understand that the Father bears witness of Him. He appealed to their knowledge of the law in Deuteronomy 17:6. This generated further questions from the Pharisees who instead of being teachable, indulged in contentious questions in order to engender strife. Nevertheless, Christ’s purpose of giving detailed explanations of His deity and relationship with the Father was achieved as some simple-hearted Jews got saved.

Many today argue and contend God’s power to save through Jesus the only Light of the world. Many who claim they are saved dispute sound doctrine on Christian conduct and living. We cannot by wishes and personal desires, change the truth of the word of God. As we hear and read the word of God, we must receive and believe it wholeheartedly like a little child. We must choose to follow Christ and walk in the Light. True discipleship is in believing and continuing in the word of God. Are you born again? Then you must follow Christ and walk in the light.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: To follow Christ is to walk in the Light.



God Is Our Source, Not the World

joyce meyer living beyond abuse

Joyce Meyer


God’s financial system is not like the world’s system. And no matter what happens around us, we don’t have to be fearful because God loves us. 

While the world’s financial systems are often unstable, the love of God never changes and remains our solid foundation in life. We can have confidence that whatever is happening, God wants to help us and will go out of His way to meet even our simple day-to-day needs.

Second Corinthians 9:10 emphasizes that God will provide for our needs and give us “bread for eating.”

God is the One who supplies our needs. Our jobs are not our source, God is. So when jobs and investments disappear, we don’t have to feel hopeless because God is not limited. He can provide for us through other means, in ways we may not have imagined or are able to figure out ahead of time.

Matthew 6:26 reassures us that if God takes care of the birds, we can believe He is going to provide for us, too. Do you believe that God can take care of you?

Prayer Starter: God, thank You for being a faithful, trustworthy source and providing all I need. No matter what happens, I rely on You and only You to meet my needs.

2 Corinthians 9:10

10 Now he that ministereth seed to the sower both minister bread for your food, and multiply your seed sown, and increase the fruits of your righteousness;)

Eagle Believers Eat The Choicest Things


Rev Olusola Areogun


Deut. 32: 9-14; Matthew 6:32-33

The Bible says, “For after all these things do the gentiles seek; for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things. But seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you.”

The above scripture tells us expressly that it is God that will do the adding. But it is at this point that several Christians miss out on God’s method. Several ministers of the gospel have ruined their destiny in pursuit of money to buy a car because almost every other minister in town has a car. God is not against you riding a car or having necessities but it should neither be at the expense of your destiny nor should it be through ungodly means. However, for the eagle believers, God will feed them with the choicest wheat, you will ride on the high places of the earth and you will eat honey out of the flinty rock. The eagle has come to a place that God is responsible for giving him the choicest things of His kingdom.

God finds a choice daughter of Zion for the brother who has labored to become an eagle before the Lord, even though every young man seeks her hand in marriage. Eagles don’t eat dead things but living things. While a minister is selling his church to buy a car, God sends somebody from overseas to give a car to another eagle minister without stress and struggle and he does not burden anyone.

While others are fighting and scampering to get a job, someone recommends the eagle believer and he gets the job on the platform of divine favour. Therefore, do everything in your capacity to become an eagle believer. Study the word, pray regularly and effectively, and develop your sensitivity to the Holy Spirit and also master faith.

Prayer:  Lord, help me to leave the lower level of life and walk with You. I receive your permission to move on to the deeper things of the spirit in Jesus name.

Beware, Judgement Day Is Coming!


Pastor W. F. Kumuyi



Key verse: “And I saw a great white throne, and him that sat on it, from whose face the earth and the heaven fled away; and there was found no place for them” (Revelation 20:11).

Many live as if they would not give   account for their actions and conducts in this world. Driven by selfish interests, they act as if they no longer have a conscience. They defy constituted authority, they trample on the rights of other people. And most times, they get away with their actions. But it will not always be so: a day of reckoning will eventually come once you shut your eyes in death.

On that day, there will be no hiding place for anyone, irrespective of class and status, material well-being and popular acclaim. Once the judgment throne of God is set, all men that ever lived on earth, both small and great, would heed the inescapable summons to appear before God and be judged. All will stand before the Great White Throne to account for their actions and inactions while alive. Those who died in the sea, those who were burnt to death, those who met their end naturally, all will be summoned to appear before the Great Judge of all the universe. He will judge all according to what is written in two sets of books that will be set before Him. The first book to be opened, the Book of Life, will contain the names of all those who did right before God. He will reward them with an eternity of peace, rest, joy and happiness. Everyone else whose names are contained in the second set of books will each be judged according to their evil and wicked acts while here on earth. Anyone whose name is not contained in the Book of Life will be cast into the lake of fire.

God’s judgment will be different from that of men. No one can bribe or influence his way through it. All wrongs will be justly punished, all rights will be justly rewarded. The time to determine what you receive on that day is now. You do so by how you live, how you relate to others, and how you relate to God. If you have been fumbling in life, rising and falling into sin, or simply nonchalantly enjoying the pleasures of sin, the time to change is now. You must quickly turn away from all those evils, plead with God to pardon and cleanse your past actions with the blood of Jesus.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY:  ”It is a fearful thing to fall into the hand of the living God”.

Honesty Outweighs Perfection

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Joyce Meyer

We can care too much about what people think of us to the point where it totally immobilizes us and we are petrified about looking wrong. But do you know what? I think if we are more truthful, we will actually get more respect than we do by trying to hide everything, pretending we’re perfect.

I believe one of the main reasons people like to listen to me is that I tell all my junk. It helps them to relax, to relate to me, and offers them hope that if I can do some of the things I’ve done and make it, so can they.

We need to stop living in fear of making mistakes, because we will make mistakes, period. God is not asking us to not make any mistakes. He’s asking us to be honest and open about our flaws. When we get them out in the open, He can help us get rid of them and move on to bigger and better things.

Don’t hide your mistakes. Get them out in the open so that you can learn from them. When you trust God with openness and honesty, He can help you overcome anything.

Prayer Starter: Lord, I have weaknesses that I’m ashamed of, but holding on to them won’t do me any good. I choose to be open about my flaws so that You can help me overcome them.

2 Corinthians 4:2

2 Corinthians 4:2 KJV

2 But have renounced the hidden things of dishonesty, not walking in craftiness, nor handling the word of God deceitfully; but by manifestation of the truth commending ourselves to every man’s conscience in the sight of God.

The Power of Focus


Rev Olusola Areogun


Acts 20:17-38; Isaiah 50:7

One of the things that helped Paul to fulfil his destiny was the power of focus. Focus helps you to direct the energy of your life for higher impact. If you are focused in life you can’t fail, because you must have made up your mind never to change from what you have perceived to be the will of God for your life. A focused man does not do trial and error, he sticks to the will of God whether it is convenient or not, he keeps going when the road is tough, he never relaxes even when the road was easy because of focus.

Seasons do not change a man of focus. He will be the same in all seasons. Paul exhibited the power of focus and he became a member of God’s first team. Focus is critical for you to be among the first team in life. Be bound to your purpose on the earth so that no matter what happens or not, you are not going to look back. Get to a point that going back is not an option; a point that the spirit of quitting loses its hold on your life. Have a focus that cannot be broken by men, devil or angels. Look at the life of Paul the Apostle for example; despite people’s opinion about where he wanted to go, he kept going. He was aware of the afflictions that awaited him but he was focused. God will always be with a man that has focus in God’s purpose for him.

One major weapon of the devil against God’s people is broken focus through distractions. When your focus is broken, your energy is spent in many directions with nothing significant to show for it. A distraction is anything that has power (directly or indirectly) to take you from what is truly yours in life. Whatever can move you from your place in God is a distraction. Distractions can come in negative or positive form and that is why you have to be careful of any form of distraction.

Distractions may show up in a negative form, but your ability to recognize them is a major compass to your destiny in life.
Ask yourself, what are the things that are currently moving you? Anything taking your attention from the things of your purpose is a distraction. It can be a little success that you have in what you are doing that you are celebrating which finally takes you from the original reason why you are on the earth. Beloved, distraction is dangerous, it is of the devil. For example a little baby can abandon a bar of gold if you give him toys that look attractive. Don’t let the devil distract you from the GOLD of your destiny by giving you toys. Avoid distraction, stay focused on what you know is the purpose of God for you and it shall be well with you in Jesus name.

Prayer: Father, I pray that you will help me to stay focused on everything that is your purpose for my life in Jesus’ name