– Bisi Adewale
Your relationship can be a TONIC to your life and it can also be TOXIC, the result of both will affect your life now and in the future either positively or negatively.
While TONIC relationship will affect you positively and give you a STAR MARRIAGE, TOXIC relationship will affect you negatively and lead to a SCAR MARRIAGE.
In this part one I will be telling you how to identify a Tonic relationship, now let talk about what tonic relationship is and how it affects you.
– Tonic relationship will move you closer to God and things of God; you will not be disobeying God because you are in a relationship.
– Will give you peace of mind and joy
– Will give you hope for the future
– As a man, you will have a level of control over the lady while she will be able to Influence you.
– As a Lady you will be able to influence your beloved, and he will have a level of control over you.
– Your focus Is not sex but future life together.
– You will still love life despite your love life
– It will aid your career and make you better
– Your honor and respect is intact
– You are free to talk, give advice to your partner on things that involves both of you
– You are not competing with any other individual to get the attention or love of your partner
– Your relationship is not affecting your academic negatively, in fact it is adding to it.
– Love is genuine, focus is right, life is good.
– You create time to pray together for your present and future life.
– Your relationship has not broken your friendship with your friends.
– Your relationship is not affecting your relationship with your parents and siblings negatively.
– Your relationship is not affecting your Health negatively.
– You are planning your future together.
– You are not been used or abuse.
– It does not involve treat, intimidation and abuses.
– It is mutually beneficial to both of you
– Your beloved is faithful, purposeful and fears God.
– It does not involve you sending your nude pictures to your beloved
– Does not involve oath taking
– You don’t need to pretend, you can still be yourself.
– You are talking and planning the future together.
– Your opinions count
– The lady is not with you for money
– The guy is not with you for sex.
– There is high level transparency.
IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS CONTRARY TO WHAT YOU SEE ABOVE,IT IS A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP,IT IS DANGEROUS.
TONIC relationship is a very good relationship, God is happy with it, it will have future and generational impact, will give you rest if it lead to marriage, and give you peace of mind in the future, avoid TOXIC relationship.
In part two of this piece I will be telling you about TOXIC relationship, don’t miss it, like me on Facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale, twitter@bisiadewale, BB pin: 2AF5C883, so as not to miss it.
(Please like this, comment on it, forward it; until it get to all your friends, it may help somebody)
To know more about this, please join me at BREAKTHROUGH FOR SINGLES’ BANQUET.
Date: 26th October, 2014
Theme: 10 DEADLY RELATIONSHIPS YOU MUST AVOID.
Venue: Eden place, opposite Lagos airport hotel, 17 Alade Avenue, Ikeja Lagos, Nigeria.
Food will be served.