Pastor Bisi Adewale
Many people spend months to prepare for wedding and do nothing to prepare for marriage. What a mistake!
PLAN FOR YOUR WEDDING: Yes, plan for your wedding; put everything necessary in place for it, but always remember that the wedding takes a day and marriage lasts a life time. It is foolish therefore to see people preparing for a day ceremony when they have not prepared for a life time issue.
PREPARING FOR WEDDING IS NOT EQUAL TO PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE:
When you buy a wedding gown, book for cake and a venue for the reception, pay for decorations, buy shoes and bags, purchase cows, chicken, bags of rice, yam and beans, you only prepare for the wedding. I have not seen a marriage that crash because the wedding was not glamorous or because they did not have cake there.
IT IS NOT BRIDAL TRAIN THAT MAKES MARRIAGE WORK BUT BRIDAL TRAINING.
Get ready for marriage, plan for your wedding.
Failure to prepare adequately for marriage may lead to the fallowing:
Wrong relationship with in-laws
Wrong handling of money
Wrong handling of sex
Hatred for one’s partner
Reporting one’s spouse to a third party
Rejection of food by husband when angry
Refusal to cook by wife when angry
Competition at home
Absence of intimacy
Preparation is non-negotiable. Money cannot build your home, neither is beauty. Even your degrees and diplomas may amount to nothing……culled from PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE. Order for your copy now
Bisi adewale is an international conference speaker on marriage and family life, the author of these best selling books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife, Hot and Sizzling Marriage, 20 Highways to a successful Marriage, Before you say I Do, and more than 60 other best selling books on marriage and family life.
He is the president of Family Booster Ministry and College of Marital Success (CMS) (Africa’s Premier Marriage Institute), Host of Family Booster Moments on TV, watched in many countries across the globe.
Bisi Adewale also hosts the popular Lagos Couples’ Conference and breakthrough for singles’ summit
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