1). Love your wife: Loving your wife is not a choice, it is a commandment of God” He who loves his wife loves himself” Eph. 5:28 wise men love their wife, foolish men hate theirs. If you love her you will not beat or abuse her, if you love her you will not punish her, you will not deny her of the house keeping allowance. If you do not love your wife, you do not love God.
(2) Manage your crisis: Learn to settle your dispute between the two of you, learn to forgive and forget, control your anger it brings no good thing. As a man NEVER beat your wife, because any man that beat his wife is a BEAST. As a woman never use sex as a weapon to fight your husband or else you will set your home on fire”.
(3) Enrich your marriage: Attend marriage seminars, read books, go for marriage counseling, listen to tapes, enrich your marriage, get new ideas on how to make your marriage work, discard your old ideas, get fresh “air” be wise, enjoy God.
(4) Praise God: Praise God always for your wife, your spouse, your children, your vision, future, problems, progress, challenges, failure etc. “Stop complaining, praise the Lord, when praise goes up, God comes down, praise God for your darling partner stop complaining about him/her, your complain has fail to change him/her. Your praise will do. Shalom.
Bisi adewale is an international conference speaker on marriage and family life, the author of these best selling books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife, Hot and Sizzling Marriage, 20 Highways to a successful Marriage, Before you say I Do, and more than 60 other best selling books on marriage and family life.
He is the president of Family Booster Ministry and College of Marital Success (CMS) (Africa’s Premier Marriage Institute), Host of Family Booster Moments on TV, watched in many countries across the globe.
Bisi Adewale also hosts the popular Lagos Couples’ Conference and breakthrough for singles’ summit
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